Prayers

This past weekend, my roommates and I went to Tampa and it was a great time.  We served at an elementary school health fair so I got to play with children of all ages while the hospital employees promoted the free swim lessons and other benefits they were offering to parents.  To make it even better, this whole event was through the YMCA which made me so happy! I just kept thinking of more reasons why I enjoy working and being associated with the YMCA.  The whole day I kept thinking of my camp family and how thrilled I was to be moving back closer to them. 

Once we got done with service, we showered and I straightened my hair before we went out for my birthday dinner.  We went to a delicious restaurant in Tampa and the 7 of us enjoyed each others' company. I even tried raw oysters! They actually weren't that bad if you don't mind a little sand in them. I had a great salad that filled me up perfectly and then blew out the birthday candles on my cupcakes that the Tampa girls made for me.  It started pouring so that canceled our plan to walk along the river in downtown so we went to the country bar right away.  It was not quite like the country bars I am used to back home but just listening to the music and being surrounded by people who enjoy that same atmosphere was nice.  They did lots of line dancing, well pretty much all line dancing, so I was studying people's feet to figure it out.  I think I'm going to try going to the line dancing classes not too far from our apartment.  We went to another bar for the rest of the night and then stopped at Food Network acclaimed eatery on the way back to get some tacos. 

The next morning I woke up around 8 or so and started getting packed while everyone else was sleeping.  The Orlando group had to leave around the same time as us so we had some delicious pancakes and then started talking.  I had gone back to check my phone in Cristina's room when I noticed a missed call.  After calling my friend back, I found out that a very good friend from camp was/is in the hospital in critical condition.  She went into cardiac arrest and is currently in a medically induced coma.  I am very worried, especially being so far, but all we can do is wait right now.  They are waiting to see how everything has affected her brain but we won't know the full results for 72 hours.  If you could lift up some prayers for her and her family, it would be very appreciated.  I am horribly impatient in situations such as this so I am struggling but I just keep praying that she will wake up from her coma tomorrow with little to no brain damage.  I am very grateful for my Camp Hyde family because we are really good at communicating with each other and being supportive.  My friend, Megan, is not going to give up her fight but I just hope she wakes up sooner rather than later.

Bittersweet

April is almost over.  I can hardly believe it and I am actually becoming saddened by it.  My days with my class are getting lower and while some days I am ready for the summer, those too are becoming few and far between.  I love my students even though they might drive me insane some days. After homework help the other day, a parent and her four children, one of which is in my class, and I were talking about my plans for next year.  She didn't realize I wasn't from Florida and had heard I was going to be teaching 5th grade next year.  One of her children will be in 5th grade next year at school and he thought I was staying.  I told her I was going to be moving back to Kansas and teaching in Wichita at a Catholic school there, not here in Miami.  Her face and his both dropped.  She said some kind words about how her children love me and that she would be sad to see me go.  Her son, whom I have kind of taken under my wing I suppose and tried to tutor after school, hugged me and said he would miss me very much.  I reminded him it's too early for "goodbyes" because I'm not mentally ready for that yet. 

That moment really made me wish I was staying next year because I will miss them all so much.  I know it is God's will that I go back to Wichita and I am thoroughly excited about that, no doubt but leaving behind these students that have made such a difference in my life will be hard.  They will never really understand how they have helped me this year. 

I have one month of school days left with all of my students before summer school and I fully intend to make the most of it.

Birthday Business

My birthday was this week and it was absolutely splendid.  My students and co-teacher surprised me with a party complete with confetti, presents, and ice cream.  I was overjoyed and flattered that they put that much effort into something for my birthday.  I was standing in front of them opening my presents and shaking a little bit because I was in such blissful shock. That evening, the girls and I went out for Panera and then some dessert downtown.  In between, I received numerous texts, phone calls, and birthday cards.  It was the perfect birthday for being far from most of my friends and family.  We will be heading to Tampa this weekend to celebrate with everyone else in the program. 

Besides birthday celebrations this week, I had my class on my own for two days and many of you would probably roll your eyes.  Most people think I'm spoiled with having a co-teacher but the truth is, we both work hard with our students when we aren't teaching because they need extra help, support, and discipline at times. So when one of us is gone, that day seems extra long because we don't get a break at all.  I feel proud to say this time around I was able to handle the classroom, get everything accomplished, and even have a little fun with them without any other teachers coming into the room for support.  I love my students but they can definitely be a handful so having extra help definitely makes a difference in terms of their attitude and behavior. 

The weekend came and I knew I had a lot to get done.  Thank goodness it rained quite a bit this weekend so I was forced to stay in and get all my grading, cleaning, etc. done.  I hung out with my friend on Saturday and we had dinner in downtown Ft. Lauderdale which was fun.  I've also started planning and booking for our trip to Key West over Memorial Day weekend! We are very excited!

To end, I wanted to share a synopsis of the priest's homily from Mass.  Today in the Gospel, Jesus found his apostles and showed them His scars.  The priest proceeded to talk about how we all have struggles and scars in our lives.  No one gets through life without a few stumbles and falls but those scars and struggles are "foundational to who we are" as he put it.  I found this so wonderful because those moments do shape and mold us.  That doesn't mean we should fall down and lay victim to them but we can use those tough times as a way to help us.  Jesus has far more scars than we ever will but He conquered all of them and uses them to teach us.  Just a good thought for the week I thought. 

Happy 3rd Week of Easter!

Back to Reality

After a wonderful time on Spring Break back in Kansas, it was time to head back to Florida.  I was anticipating my students to be more unruly than they actually were today.  They greeted me with big hugs and smiles once they entered the classroom.  Their smiles and hugs are so genuine, especially when we've been separated for a period of time.  School was pretty good today, considering it was the first day back from our break.  It's time to buckle down and focus on this last month and a half of school.  I told my family that it will go fast and I'll be back in no time at all.

Speaking of time flying, it's my birthday tomorrow and that's just a bit strange.  I guess it's true that as you get older, the number isn't important and neither are the presents.  I just like to have time with the people I care about.  I would love nothing more than to spend time with every single friend and family member tomorrow but I will get to spend it with my students and my wonderful roommates which will be just perfect.  Each birthday brings new thoughts and ideas to my head and this year is no different. I could not be more grateful for the people that I am blessed to have in my life.  Going home reminded me of all the relationships that I will get to come home to but also that I will be leaving behind some very remarkable people that have greatly impacted my life forever.  This year has definitely been yet another turning point in my life and I will never regret having done this.  God always knows what He is doing and I'm so glad I had the courage to trust in Him.  Tonight I will be going to sleep with a smile on my face because I could not be feeling more blessed on the eve of my 23rd birthday.

Families

I spent the past week at a retreat down here in Miami with my fellow CVIF members.  It was a great retreat and there is lots to share but I think this post is meant to reflect on something else that is often on my mind.  Throughout my time down here, I have shared with many people how blessed I am to have a very supportive family back home in Kansas.  While there are a lot of them, cousins, aunts, uncles, not to mention my immediate family, I know that they will always be there for me regardless of the decisions I make in my life.  They truly mean the world to me and I love them dearly.  I have missed them so much this year and think about them constantly but their support is what gives me strength when I am feeling down.  I realize that not everyone has the same family situation which makes me love mine even more but I do think that everyone has a family or families that love them. 

The word "family", to me, no longer just means someone that is related to you by blood.  The older I have become (and I know I'm not that old) the more families I have been surrounded by.  When I was in college, I gained my Didde family because I needed a church family to cling to and help me grow. In Didde, I gained brothers and sisters that helped me grow as a person and in my relationship with God.  We even had a "mom" that watched over all of us students and took care of us whenever we needed a mother.  The bonds I formed there are some that I know will last for a long time as if sisters and brothers that have know each other all their lives.

In the summer of 2009, I gained another family in my life--my Camp Hyde family.  I remember my boss, Jon, telling us at the start of summer that we will be a family; we will have great laughs, fun times, and some arguments along the way but no matter what, we stick together.  I have always admired Jon for all the hard work he puts into camp each year and the time he invests in each person that works for him during the summers.  I have formed great memories at camp and am grateful that my friends have been very supportive of me moving down here for the year.  Their confidence in me made me feel stronger about moving away.  They were there with me on my last day in Kansas in July and some of the first people I saw when I came home at Christmas just like my blood family. 

This year I have gained another family in my life. I'm sure you can guess this is my CVIF family.  Spending the past week with these people has been nothing short of wonderful.  We have been through many struggles but also joyful moments thus far.  We started out the year with 14 in August, lost 5 along the way but gained 5 as of this past retreat.  This family is a group of people that I am able to relate to in a new way.  The experiences and emotions we have been through this year are those that not many others can relate to unless they have had a similar experience.  This is no one's fault but simply the product of our choices.  We had a speaker that talked to us about how to handle life after our service year which was a topic that had been occupying my mind lately.  We found out there are conferences in different parts of the country where we can share our experiences with others who have also been part of a volunteer program.  There were several of us that would like to attend one because while we love the families we left behind very much, it can be hard to relate to someone that does not see the same struggles and go through the same changes we have.  God has definitely sent me some amazing people to share my year of service with and I have no doubt that this is yet another family that will be part of my life for a very long time.  

I am headed home on Wednesday to see my other families and cannot wait! Each family that has become part of my life so far has had a unique and beautiful impact on my life and I am grateful to each one of them.  They have formed me and shaped me into the young woman I am today.  I love each member of my different families and am so blessed to have so many families in my life. 

For all you Kansans, see you in just 3 short days! I can't wait to be home!